Love

SpyroGirl101 · Apr 01, 2008 8:13 PM

I really like this boy at my school and I think he likes me too. But what if I'm wrong and he doesn't want to go on a date with me? I am really nervous. Any info would be nice. I know this is wierd, but I have never liked anyone before and it's just such a great feeling!

Ayumi_the_Dark_Wolf · Apr 01, 2008 8:22 PM

i know what you mean. sadly i got dumped a week ago so now im sad sad

SpyroGirl101 · Apr 01, 2008 8:23 PM

Well, I have never even dated anyone before, I have never even liked anyone before.

Reivan · Apr 02, 2008 5:12 AM

???? well you willl. Im sure everyone has had that worry. I know i have. love is a strange thing...

Misa · Apr 02, 2008 7:30 AM

First be his friend, hang out with him, talk to him about his likes and dislikes.Once you guys are close, start flirting but dont go overborad with it, trust me on that one <.< and when he is ready ask him out but just make sure its a little thing then make it bigger, (know what i mean? I hope so)
NOTE- Relationships does take time, so have Patience ^^

Zekira Drake · Apr 02, 2008 1:10 PM

Honestly I can't give advice much LOL.

...it's because love went my way when it was open.

I've been in a relationship (too young, maybe lol) for quite a while now (going to be 2 years in December). But as usual, my age won't fit in to be committed yet.

spyromaster330 · Apr 02, 2008 1:24 PM

do you know this boy very well? like are you good friends or anything and have you even talked to him before?

Rurikredwolf · Apr 02, 2008 2:50 PM

As Misa said, try to get to know him. It may take a year or so, but if you truely find love with him, you will not regret it. I speak from experiance.

Phoenix_Flyer · Apr 02, 2008 2:52 PM

I can't really give advice either, I've never been out with anyone before. That doesn't mean I haven't been asked out before (a couple of times), but I turned them all down because they were all my friends from swimming and if something went wrong I would have to see them all of the time which would have been awkward for both of us. Also I was and still am really good friends with them and I valued their friendship more than going out with them. Well, I also happened to fancy someone else anyway but still.... But I would say that Misa is right about this one, get to know him then take the plunge! wink

LoneKnight · Apr 02, 2008 5:31 PM

You just have a crush. You'll have a few hundred more in your life.

SpyroGirl101 · Apr 02, 2008 8:16 PM

I don't think it's a crush because I have known him for 2 years. Also, I'm a pretty good friend of his. The weird thing is that I am a very religous person, and about three days after I got saved, I started having feelings for him. It's like God wants me to be with him. Another thing, I have NEVER EVER even liked a boy until now. (Just for your information, I am in 8th grade, soon to be in high school) Another thing is, I don't want my mom or dad to find out because it's just embarrassing.

Phoenix_Flyer · Apr 02, 2008 8:48 PM

Hhmmmm.... A toughie. Well, if you really value your friendship with him then I would wait. If it went wrong you would be heartbroken, and you would likely lose a friend in the process. Relationships don't often last when you're younger I'm afraid and no matter what you say, once you take the friendship further things won't go back to the way they were before. I've had to comfort many a friend after a 2 month long relationship ended in a break-up. Theres nothing to stop you going out with him when you're older though! And you would also have more time for him! And if you're not sure then tell your parents, they can give you better advice than any of us here.

Spyro_Loves_Me · Apr 03, 2008 4:05 AM

I've kept most of my relationships away from my parents. My mom just goes crazy when she sees me with another girl.
Just find a time when you two are alone and ask him how he feels about you or how the current relationship stands. Also, do make sure he's not going out with anyone else. wink
Don't worry if it doesn't go your way though. High school has so much more. You'll see.

Phoenix_Flyer · Apr 03, 2008 10:51 AM

Spyro_Loves_Me hit the nail on the head. However keeping a relationship away from your parents when you're younger isn't a good idea really, they would want to know you trust them.... But at the end of the day its your choice, you don't have to mention it to them.

Zekira Drake · Apr 03, 2008 1:55 PM

Hm. I think it's harmful to be in a relationship but have like 10 more crushes lol. Just like me.

Rurikredwolf · Apr 03, 2008 6:48 PM

Yeah. I do not like telling my parents about my relationships until I am certain. They go all weird and stuff...and it makes me angry.

Sparkz · Apr 03, 2008 6:57 PM

i have a girlfriend but the number one tip is to wait for him to do the first move

DragonFireOKN · Apr 03, 2008 10:48 PM

Sparx, you know that you just called your girl a guy right? wink Anyway, she could be waiting for you to do the first move too. As for myself, I have a mate, or soon will.

Misa · Apr 04, 2008 1:06 AM

Is he religous too?

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