Has anyone ever had a friend start being horrible to you suddenly?

The Mad Thatter · Apr 17, 2010 4:55 PM

I had that happen not long ago. She's called Scarlett and she had been my best friend for over a year, but suddenly - a few months ago - she started being really spiteful. Now Scarlett doesn't look a day over ten and she's literally skin-and-bone - she eats like five twirls of pasta for lunch, trust me - but if she ate more she could be really pretty.
But that's what she's being saying to me - she kept saying how much better she was than me, and, well, I didn't mind that because even though it was irritating, it didn't hurt me. But then she switched from saying she was so much better to that she was so much prettier than me. And that hurts - she knows that's what gets to me, and she was doing it deliberatly. she said it twice and each time I ended up in tears and she didn't give a toss.
My other (real) friend Matthew confronted her on it, saying 'Why d'you keep saying your prettier than her?' and Scarlett just says 'Because I am'.
So I broke friends with her, sobbing again (I sound like a real wet blanket - I know) and Scarlett seems to think that it's Matthew's fault. I just hate her, because she's always been really insensetive and when I told her my cat was going do die she didn't even comfort me - she simply waffles on about some stupid ring she got.
Has anything weird like this ever happened to them?

Clock-la · Apr 17, 2010 5:06 PM

Yup heres my tail...

I'll change names for confidentuallityXD

My friend Martha had a friend called beth and I never hung out with beth but martha was a realy good friends of hers then Martha and best had a fallout with this other friend Jenny, Jenny turned into a "popular" girl and well she just changed so mutch so fast...

Then came the awfull bit Jenny was been awfull to both of my friends so i stook up for both of them and we b***'d about jenny and had a few good time's and i remember beth said "Jenny's changed" ok SHE HAD THE NEARVE TO SAY THAT!

Jenny had a friend called Faye and Beth was still friends with faye. Well it was only a metter of time. Faye been friends with Jenny eventually mutured Beth and well beth was a monster and in sciance one time we had a seating plan for biolagy and i got put with Beth and Faye, I thought it would have been ok but faye and beth were both been horrid to me I was like "WHAT THE HELL!"

remember Beth saying Jenny changed well...Beth now HONIST TO GOD i feel i'll when i look at her, she's fat wears LOTS of make up and her hair is awfull she used to have a pont tail and a hair band that was nice...now its just curs that looks awfull on her. she had changed compleatly luckly in sciance miss moved me because of thees other 2 boys talking but as i left i still remember hearing her say to the boy "well atleast your not Jane..."

Martha also fell out with Beth and beth just ignored her and made up a realy awfull rumor up about her for no reason and Marta and I are still very good friend evan though she moved to scotland. I have other friends way better friends that beth and jenny >_< I just feel sorry for martha because she was friends with her for years.

The Mad Thatter · Apr 18, 2010 8:28 AM

sad

It's horrible. The stupidest thing about Scarlett is a day later she's acting like nothing's happened, like she's forgotten how despairingly hurt I was. God, if she says anything of the sort again I'm going to slap her smug face.
Lol, I should break her nose, then she won't be pretty.
I mean, I've never thought I was pretty - I'm far from perfect. But to practically say I'm ugly...:'(

Clock-la · Apr 18, 2010 10:10 AM

Funny this...just last night me and "martha" had a fall out, a big one i don't wan't to be her friend anymore if im honist.. sad

Erza · Apr 18, 2010 10:35 AM

I knows what you two mean. My best-friend fall-out is a bit more complicated...

When I was in primary school, when I still had glasses. I was the most unpopular person ever. I had no friends until year five. Near the start of the year, I hung around the three most horrid guys ever, who spread rumours about me and everything. I couldn't take it anymore are walked off to some other group. Which is when I became friends with Shaylee, Shannon and Mursal. They didn't want me with them, but they felt sorry for me.
I eventually got contact lenses and everything became a little better, I actually had a few more friends and whatnot because I was 'prettier'.

We went high-school, a year after. Mursal went to a different school but Shaylee and Shannon went to the same as me. I was in the same form with Shaylee, and Shannon went to the 'Academic' form (I also straightened my hair then.). Everything was fine until last year. When It rained one morning. I didn't bring un umbrella so my hair got wet and went curly. (Now just to tell you, I'm very sensitive about my hair.) and the first thing I got when I saw my 'best-friend', Shaylee, was; "Ahhaha!! xDD" And of course I yell, "You wouldn't be laughing if you spent an hour straightening your hair! >:|"

So in class, I refused to speak to her in any way and I couldn't sit on the same table as her and I sat on my own table, being cool. hung around with Shannon, who made friends in her form. Now, I knew all her friends hated me, so I was just like in primary school again. But one of the girls in my form, Danielle, basically replaced me. Which after that, I had practically turned into an emo, I was that depressed, even dyeing me hair black. Which also caused more problems. xD But the only upside to this fight I had, was meeting my bestest friend; Harry, who still is my bestest friend to this day. And gaining the confidence to not give a llama's *bleep* about anybody who isn't a close friend.

Anyways, I cried once in class, and twice at home. Hell, my mother even got me the Warrior Cat's seriese to make me feel better. big_smile But during the Christmas holidays, I appologized to Shaylee for overeacting 5 months ago. All was fine until we got moved into other forms when we went back to school. And Shaylee. obviously made heaps of friends in her new grade, that even the people your've known for seven years don't count anymore. I my newest friend, Holly. Who was Danielle's bestest friend ever. And she has been through the exact same thing as me.

Anyways, she still hangs around with us but, Shaylee brings all her EFG (FEG Max group. xD) friends with her, and Holly and I don't exactly fit in with them because we like pokemon and whatnot. Shaylee doesn't like where Holly and I sit and chat. So they go off and do their own thing. But what really irritated Holly and I is that Danielle, forgets about Holly completely, and Shaylee and Danielle are the bestest of friend.

/Story.

Most of the time, I wish I wasn't a girl. (:
I stil have the story of dying my hair black. but I cbf typing. xD

The Mad Thatter · Apr 18, 2010 11:12 AM

What, they didn't like you because you had curly hair and glasses? I think curly hair pwns all and glasses are way more interesting than normal eyes. smile
I'm glad you have your other friends though.
I get on with about everyone normally, and I have Matthew and my new friend Aimee for close friends, but it's still weird that Scarlett's suddenly started acting so spiteful...

Erza · Apr 18, 2010 11:20 AM

Yeah, that's why they hated me. I was a bit of loser, I will admitt. But my personality pwnz everyone elses. >D
And I understand. But life goes on I guess, an you learn who your real friends are. (:

The Mad Thatter · Apr 18, 2010 12:07 PM

I'm sure you weren't a loser. big_smile

Erza · Apr 19, 2010 6:29 AM

Oh, I was. Curly/Frizzy hair circular glasses, large front teeth. The works. ;D

Clock-la · Apr 19, 2010 3:20 PM

XD actually my friend in scotland made up its hard to exsplain but it was just one big missunderstanding XD somthing otta scooby doo you could say XD

MrXLink · Apr 19, 2010 5:11 PM

The New age of Cynder wrote:

Most of the time, I wish I wasn't a girl. (:

I bet boys can have more social problems as well...
Friends who lose interest in you, friends who suddenly bully you... Met 'em.
The first one's the worst one, believe me. I've had a "friend" for 6 years already (primary school), I moved (bweeeeh sad ), we promised to keep contact via MSN/telephone. I did, he didn't. I sometimes called him and chatted with him, he didn't do anything. After months of hearing nothing of him, I started to make my last phone call. The WORST CALL EVER. He didn't remember who I was, didn't remember my name, didn't even know why I was calling him. It's so... dmn annoying! Makes you wonder why you ever met that person.

Since then I haven't got a real good friend anymore. But yup, I'm not that popular (That is, mostly, because I'm practically smarter than they are, I'm the only one from another primary school in my class (yes, still!), I don't play soccer (it sucks, rly), and they find that I'm acting weird, which is just what I think of them xD). But well, I can live with it. I like to work alone, and I'd rather work alone than with a friend who will turn out to be such an imbecile as the rest wink

[[Oh my, the only boy in 'ere. Am I gay now? *vomits*]]

Erza · Apr 20, 2010 6:34 AM

^Lol. You're not gay for sayingsomething about what happened to you.
You would be gay if you were listening to Lady Gaga, like my brother is. xD

MrXLink · Apr 20, 2010 2:45 PM

lol, just joking, and Lady Gaga's the most horrible music you can listen to, really.

Apoc · Apr 20, 2010 7:35 PM

I have a friend like that, but he's always like that, he's horrible in a good way. He is cruel but in a nice way, funnily enough.

cooldude22345 · Apr 25, 2010 6:02 AM

Was your friend PMS'ing?

Clock-la · Apr 25, 2010 5:47 PM

somethings happening with my friend in scotland, she has no idea about it but i know it happening.

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