Lossing Old Friends

~cornys~ · May 23, 2009 3:30 AM

Well... I decided to create this thread after having a long time friend decide to turn against me over a course of a year. Last day of school today and I get home and get on Facebook he has completely flamed me in about 25 separate locations.. oh well... I handled it nicly I think with out arguing and I think he now regreats it...

Growing-up and Growing apart I guess... Anything like this ever happened to any of you?

John Man 1234 · May 23, 2009 3:52 PM

I used to get into arguments a lot of times with my friends. I felt ashamed and guilty after and made up with them. Your not the only one it's happend to me as well. But no matter what they still remain our friends. The best friends I ever had I am still friends with them today but they are going to different schools. I miss them -( Forgive me that last part does not relate to the topic at hand at all. I am terribly for wasting your time.

~cornys~ · May 25, 2009 4:54 AM

hey.. I have nothing but time... lol

Erza · May 25, 2009 6:13 AM

i had an ex-friend i thought who was a friend, told me to act 18, to follow society, that i had no friends and to act my age because i love transformers.
but i told her ...

get stuffed. i have friends that like me the way i am and i plan to stay that way, because im not a effin sheep.

Aceedwin · May 25, 2009 8:47 AM

Awww... That's sticking it to the man! (God I feel so dirty now)

Stormy · May 26, 2009 2:15 PM

Since second grade, I had always wanted to be in the same home room as my best friend. In fifth grade, we finally got into the same home room, but thanks to me being a *bleep*, we sort of drifted apart. I still feel guilty about it sometimes.

In sixth grade when we were junior counselors for the same group of little kids, we got along like old friends; it wasn't awkward at all. I guess she didn't have any hard feelings.

Aicebo · May 26, 2009 2:39 PM

^Oh my God I am a mini Stormy for the2nd grade/5th grade comment except that my old supposed "best friend" was being mean.

Spyro Master · May 26, 2009 4:36 PM

Ive lost contact with my friends from my first primary school where i used to live because i moved sad , and ive joined facebook as ive left my current secondary school as its exams and leaving day and everything just to stay in contact with people so it wont happen again. But i still miss the people from where i used to live sad

MarioSpyro · May 26, 2009 4:56 PM

I will never argue with my friends we agree and disagree with each at times but most of the time were in the same direction. Plus I see no reason to argue really. smile

Spyro Master · May 26, 2009 4:59 PM

Ive never properly argued with my mates really, as we get along well and also we just muck about to much big_smile so never really arguing

Aceedwin · May 26, 2009 5:51 PM

Oh, I argue all the time, and get into fights fairly often. Whether I win or not is something you'll have to deduce.

John Man 1234 · May 26, 2009 8:15 PM

I do not get into arguments with my friends. Would not have it any other way.

Spyro Master · May 26, 2009 8:48 PM

I try to steer things away if its leading to an arguement, but if two friends do then i will step into the middle and try to stop it. Mostly because the few arguements tht were happening were before standdown day and i didnt want everyone to fall out with each other.

Nightfall · May 26, 2009 9:27 PM

I don't tend to argue with friends, but my best friend in Year 7,8 and 9 had to move schools because her mum didn't think that the current school was good enough (I'll agree with her on that, LOL big_smile ). I rarely see her now. sad

Just finished school except for exams and recently found out my current BF is going to a different school to do A levels! >_<

Oh well, I'll make new friends in college right? Plus I have my other friends. smile

Spyro Master · May 26, 2009 9:30 PM

SAME!!! ive left school cause of exams at the mo to big_smile *hi-fives* lol bloomin revison doing my head in though sad .....and then joining a new 6 form to come as well but i know a few people there luckily

Nightfall · May 26, 2009 10:05 PM

LOL Finally someone who understands me! big_smile

Spyro Master · May 26, 2009 10:26 PM

XD same here, theres no-one else that ive seen whos from the UK who has left school at this time so i cant talk about it lol XD

RedDragonX · May 27, 2009 1:20 AM

I've moved five times and I try to keep in contact with all of those who I enjoyed the company of...but things change over time and nobody stays the same...one of the sad things about growing older I'm afraid.

I have a big difference between an aquaintance and a friend....and I don't have too many people that I consider a friend.

~cornys~ · May 27, 2009 3:54 AM

Yeah.. my friend.. his mother is battleing Cancer and everybody in the school is like hudling around him scilently. He doesn't like to talk about it though so I did as I always have. However he's now hanging out around the "cool" kids and is thinking that he is better than I. He is not much different from myself though and many times when he flames (or for lack of better terms 'makes fun' of me) he is very hippocritical... lol... anyhow I think you guys get the idea of what is happeening there.

As much as it bother's me to see him hate on me, it makes me feel even worse to know how easily he turned on me and felt himself better than I. As similar minded and mannered and everything we are... It sends chills down my spine....

Spyro Master · May 27, 2009 7:57 AM

Times change though, and so do people. You may know someone but then they act completely different after a certain situation like this one you are saying. Its happened to one of my friends, friends, they started going out with someone and her friends started acting completely different to the person she started going out with, and now they have they stopped going out those friends are fine towards him. Weird really to be honest. oh well XD

RedDragonX · May 27, 2009 2:12 PM

Well it's certainly one of the reasons why I don't put much faith into relationships anymore. Not until I meet someone who is pretty stable about who they are.

Spyro Master · May 27, 2009 2:28 PM

Yeh well you never know really until you get to know them more some of the time.

MarioSpyro · May 27, 2009 4:48 PM

Even if you move away from your friends or if they move there is always away to contact them so it's like they never left.

Spyro Master · May 27, 2009 6:07 PM

yeh, well ive tried all the ways i can think of, save one, which is to visit where i used to live again.

~cornys~ · May 27, 2009 8:16 PM

I'm luck (or mabey unlucky I wouldn't know) to have not ever moved since I was 2... Which I wouldn't remember and well it's irrelevent to me now where I used to live that long ago...

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