Very Sad Angels?

John Man 1234 · Oct 01, 2008 8:45 PM

Well you guys are some of my best friends I'm a little shy about asking this but I gotta be brave. Well there are these amazing girls at my school who are Latina. They were really sweet to me when I first came to the school and one of them is my crush. Lately they have been very sad and I hate seeing them like that is there anything I can try to make them smile again I really miss it when they do that it makes my day but I wanna try and make them happy again.

Kazoobie64 · Oct 01, 2008 9:29 PM

Tell them latinas are awesome.

In all seriousness, can't you find a right time to talk to them and ask what's wrong? They might end up telling you the whole story if there is one and letting their feelings out which could make them feel better, (if they haven't already helped each other seeing as the way you make them sound, they're always together and sharing the same feelings) then you can add some jokes if you're good at making people laugh, but otherwise I don't know. Sadness is just a phase they can get over, this can just be a good opportunity for you to bond with them.

John Man 1234 · Oct 01, 2008 10:04 PM

Thanks Kazoo Yeah I always have wanted to bond with them I will get right on that.

raven · Oct 02, 2008 2:23 AM

Well, Kazoobie pretty much summed it up.

If it was me, I'd just ask them gently if there is something wrong and show interest in their problem, and if they say no, I'd say something respectful to their wishes but still indicating interest in the matter, like "Ok then, but my ears are open to your troubles anytime". I'd listen carefully to what they say and perhaps ask some small questions here and there, without trying to judge them.

John Man 1234 · Oct 02, 2008 11:44 PM

Thanks guys this is all realy helpful I will try it.

John Man 1234 · Oct 09, 2008 12:44 AM

Well now there feeling better me and my older bro got some flowers for them and asked their Spanish teacher if she can surprise it with them tommrow. Thanks guys there feeling alot better and i'm happy about that but I could have done it without your help so thank you from the button of my heart.

Swaffy · Oct 09, 2008 2:43 AM

By God's grace.

John Man 1234 · Oct 09, 2008 10:44 PM

Amen and thank you most kindly.

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