Spyrorocks I apologise

John Man 1234 · Aug 27, 2008 2:59 PM

Who's to say they would learn a lesson wouldn't they just come back and do something like this again it's just my option but just a ban alone might not help how in the freakin world do you fall in love with someone you just meet on the internet stupid really.

A Guy · Aug 27, 2008 3:06 PM

Sorry to Antr, but I personally agree with both of the posts above hmm

reddragon12 · Aug 27, 2008 4:57 PM

yeah but why did Spyrorocks take it that far and humiliate us compleatly

A Guy · Aug 27, 2008 4:58 PM

Well, the link to your PM isn't exactly easy to find...

reddragon12 · Aug 27, 2008 5:06 PM

thankyou for making me feel better

Stormy · Aug 27, 2008 5:27 PM

[sub]I don't know if that was meant to be sarcasm, but in any case, it could have been a lot worse. Did he actually post the picture up for the whole forum? No, he just showed it to a few people who were wondering what was going on.

Anyway, regarding this issue, I still think they should have another chance. It's very unlikely that they'd do it again after all that's happened because of it. They've had their punishment.
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Adam Thurman · Aug 27, 2008 11:13 PM

I think they both suffered enough and i think this thread should be closed. Any one remember what happened between me and Razz. Reading this makes me think to myself that i would not want this to happen even to my worst enemy. Yet it happens all the time on myspace. It is a good thing that the moderators on here are dedicated to doing the right thing even if it means being banned. I think I could look up to them.

Why make them suffer much more of this?

Aicebo · Aug 27, 2008 11:26 PM

You call this suffering?

You don't know suffering...

Adam Thurman · Aug 28, 2008 12:27 AM

To some one at that age seeing his words said in private being put up in public view is embarrassing. What if they loved each other They trust each other. True they are young but being band and then having your words put like that...

I can't imagine what it must be like his age. Don't get me wrong, I have been pressured by a girl in the passed and given in to her desire. Then she dumped me for not giving her the same thing that was mentioned here. Aicebo out of all the people i think your the one that i would say it is hard being Christian.

Here is something that you did not know. Before i was her boyfriend i was with this other girl and when she asked me out i could see that she was about to cry and i could not hurt her seeing how long we have been friends. It was a friend of my other girlfriend who told her that i was cheating on her. She dumped me for this. I was 12 then and i am seventeen now.

It took me four years to get over it. I cant imagine how long it will take them to do what i had to. Like i said i would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you have suffered worse than by all means tell me so may be i could put it into my book that i am writing and let it go. The whole reason i am writing a book called Dragon Missioner is to send out a message to all Christians that it is worth being a Christian no matter how bad any one has suffered. Sorry for mentioning my religion again but this statement would not make since without mentioning it.

Aicebo · Aug 28, 2008 12:31 AM

You're not supposed to date when you're twelve years old.
And I'm happy to have my religion and not yours. So don't feed it to me, please.

Fletch_Talon · Aug 28, 2008 12:42 AM

Adam Thurman wrote:

To some one at that age seeing his words said in private being put up in public view is embarrassing. What if they loved each other They trust each other. True they are young but being band and then having your words put like that...
I can't imagine what it must be like his age. Don't get me wrong, I have been pressured by a girl in the passed and given in to her desire. Then she dumped me for not giving her the same thing that was mentioned here. Aicebo out of all the people i think your the one that i would say it is hard being Christian.
Here is something that you did not know. Before i was her boyfriend i was with this other girl and when she asked me out i could see that she was about to cry and i could not hurt her seeing how long we have been friends. It was a friend of my other girlfriend who told her that i was cheating on her. She dumped me for this. I was 12 then and i am seventeen now.
It took me four years to get over it. I cant imagine how long it will take them to do what i had to. Like i said i would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you have suffered worse than by all means tell me so may be i could put it into my book that i am writing and let it go. The whole reason i am writing a book called Dragon Missioner is to send out a message to all Christians that it is worth being a Christian no matter how bad any one has suffered. Sorry for mentioning my religion again but this statement would not make since without mentioning it.

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a) religion seems to play absolutely no part in whatever you were trying to say there, it certainly has nothing to do with minors conversing in a rather intensly sexual manner

b) they are 12 and 13 yrs old, they needed to be made aware that their behaviour was inappropriate, if possible i think letting their parents know what they were posting would have been the best course of action, but thats not exactly possible within an internet community

c) the private messages havnt been shown to everybody and they arent to my knowledge, posted anywhere where the public can view them at will, nonetheless they are now embarassed/humiliated humiliation causes regret and regret causes correction of past behaviour in the future

the ends justify the means

d) id be wary about aiming a book about dragons at a christian audience, look at what many christian churches thought about the harry potter series, books based on the supernatural dont tend to be accepted very well by christians, thats not to say theyre all like that but many clearly are

Adam Thurman · Aug 28, 2008 1:12 AM

Qoute; d) id be wary about aiming a book about dragons at a christian audience, look at what many christian churches thought about the harry potter series, books based on the supernatural dont tend to be accepted very well by christians, thats not to say theyre all like that but many clearly are.

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The whole idea is to change there point of view. How about this for example, most people think goth are satanic but there is this thing called Christian goth which i decided to become since i have never fit in any group. What about the Chronicles of Narnia or Lord of the rings had the super natural and they are the best of secular writing.

My point in the book is that no matter who you are you can be Christian. The main character is a dragon who's family has been given a really hard time for being Christian just like your point these kind of books has been looked down upon.

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Qoute; c) the private messages havnt been shown to everybody and they arent to my knowledge, posted anywhere where the public can view them at will, nonetheless they are now embarassed/humiliated humiliation causes regret and regret causes correction of past behaviour in the future
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One question though Why id you have to tell them what she said in her pm. Was it not enough to just ban them from pming? Talking about using a hammer instead of a boot to spank. For all you know they could be hurting themselves by now. I don't mean to alarm you but it has happened on Myspace. Some one committed suicide because they said something private and then they were stabbed in the back and his whole school knew what he said.

Aicebo · Aug 28, 2008 1:15 AM

No one is going to hurt themselves from what people far away say. No one's gonna come and go after them. Even when I went through my little depression I didn't once think about hurting myself.

A Guy · Aug 28, 2008 1:18 AM

Adam Thurman wrote:

One question though Why id you have to tell them what she said in her pm. Was it not enough to just ban them from pming? Talking about using a hammer instead of a boot to spank. For all you know they could be hurting themselves by now. I don't mean to alarm you but it has happened on Myspace. Some one committed suicide because they said something private and then they were stabbed in the back and his whole school knew what he said.

Just want to put in my point-I am trying to remain neutral on this issue.

There are several things that made me want to hurt myself, but never once have I considered hurting myself because of something that happened on the Internet.

Spyrorocks · Aug 28, 2008 5:03 AM

They are free to leave and continue their "relationship" somewhere else, be it IM, email, msn webcam chat, whatever. Just don't solicit each other about having sex via my forum.

reddragon12 · Aug 28, 2008 7:05 AM

Aicebo wrote:

You call this suffering?
You don't know suffering...

yeah well in this situation
i have been humiliated compleatly far from embarised
i have barely many friends cause they think it will happen with them too
and i'm getting blamed for something i didn't do i never said it so why am i getting the blame?

Spyrorocks wrote:

They are free to leave and continue their "relationship" somewhere else, be it IM, email, msn webcam chat, whatever. Just don't solicit each other about having sex via my forum.

WE NOW HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP!

Spyrorocks · Aug 28, 2008 7:27 AM

I honestly don't really care. I'm tired of all your drama.

reddragon12 · Aug 28, 2008 7:32 AM

if your tired from all my drama then you take what i have and you try dealing with it i'm a twelve year old girl and i have a lot of pressure put on
me sir so please don't complain about my comlaining i can't ever talk about my problems or my stress or how much preasure i'm under nothing
so if you want to shut me up then fine do it would be the last thing on my mind

Spyrorocks · Aug 28, 2008 7:42 AM

Thats the last thing the internet needs... another 12 year old girl with a lot of problems and a lot of time on her hands...

Fletch_Talon · Aug 28, 2008 7:42 AM

Spyrorocks wrote:

I honestly don't really care. I'm tired of all your drama.

lets be fair on RD12, she's been trying to cut back on this drama, this was the first discussion about it that she started and it was mostly regarding her not being allowed to PM

now i personally think she is as responsible for what happened as AntR and i dont think she should have her PM priveleges back, but still she's been doing her best to ignore AntR and stay away from bringing this up

Spyrorocks · Aug 28, 2008 7:44 AM

I have no intention of re-instating either user's PMs anytime soon.

reddragon12 · Aug 28, 2008 7:45 AM

thankyou i think i just don't get why i am getting blamed for something i never said

Fletch_Talon · Aug 28, 2008 7:48 AM

reddragon12 wrote:

thankyou i think i just don't get why i am getting blamed for something i never said

ive seen the screenshot in question and frankly you were partaking in the "event" even if only because you were'nt doing anything to discourage it

reddragon12 · Aug 28, 2008 7:49 AM

oh yeah and i said "yeah sure come to my house at 7:00"

Fletch_Talon · Aug 28, 2008 7:51 AM

reddragon12 wrote:

oh yeah and i said "yeah sure come to my house at 7:00"

did you say:

"we're not old enough to be talking about or thinking about sexual activity at our age so i think you should tone things down a bit"

?

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