Behind your back?

Mr. John · Apr 21, 2011 2:44 AM

Today in my gym class I was working out saw to people watching me could have sworn they were taking about me behind my back. The teacher even said my name cause he was in the same room as them. When I looked at them for a second they stopped talking. If you want to say something about or to me say it to my face. I mean I don't bite.

Enough rambling Soyrofourm has anyone ever talked about you behind your back and have you caught them red handed ever? What you do in these situations?

SapphireSheep · Apr 21, 2011 3:41 AM

people would talk behind my back quite a bit but I think I only caught them once. I knew this girl who used to harass me back in the 6th grade. It stopped for a while after I reported her. but back in high school I ended up having my last period class with her. So after last period as I was walking to my mom's car I happened to be walking behind this girl and her friend, we split off at one point and I heard her voice (and I just had a feeling she was talking about me) so I looked over my shoulder and she was actually looking at me, so when she noticed I was looking back it startled her. They even started laughing =/ catty little *bleep*

Mr. John · Apr 21, 2011 3:49 AM

I'm sorry to hear that Sapphire. She sounds like a witch. She needs to stop and leave you alone or get an attitude adjustment.

36IStillLikeSpyro36 · Apr 21, 2011 3:56 AM

yes.. basically anyone who goes to school, or goes into public to begin with, is going to have people talking about them, unfortunately.

I mean I don't bite.

i did bite. (not literally) i know revenge isn't right, but when people pick on you a lot, and nobody takes you seriously, it bothers you after a while...

but things are slowly changing. i'm getting real friends, and real respect now... and i'm not the subject of ridicule much anymore. it just sucks that it took such anger (i won't even go into it) to get people to realize, after 11 years, that i am, in fact, a living being with feelings... sad

now i really try not to be so vicious anymore. ^^

Swaffy · Apr 21, 2011 3:58 AM

I don't talk trash behind people's backs. Not only would it be unChristian-
like of me to do such a thing, but it is simply a wrong and disrespectuful
thing to do.

Stormy · Apr 21, 2011 5:20 AM

I got picked on to my face a lot at my tiny elementary school, but in high school there were so many people I don't think anyone really noticed me at all. They might have talked about me behind my back for all I knew, but I don't think so. I doubt I was interesting enough to them.

But... I've witnessed people talking about me on spyrochat. When it was new you used to be able to see a few messages that were sent before you joined, so one time I joined and they were talking about me. That was back when Aicebo didn't like/trust me; they were talking about who should be the next moderator or something.

Clock-la · Apr 21, 2011 8:12 AM

loongg tales I have >_>

not behind my back but to my FACE

I had a friend who i love now and still do. she had another friend who at the time was ALRIGHT. now at this moment in time my friend and her friend were having a BIG fallout within there groop, as a girl was been a compleat *bleep* to the both of them, so they left the groop and my friend and her friend were always going on about how mutch there frind had changed. ((Sorry about saying friend aload XD i'd rather keep names out))

So anyway Sciance comes and I see the friend of mine looking at me then the seating plan was me next to her, I was thinkin...right...should be alright I guess hmm I sit down and what a *bleep*. she had made up with the other girls and was been a compleat cow to me. and to make it wqorse she was been one to my other friends aswell.

But ofcorse wonderfull things happend and I guess what gose around comes around.

When I told you the groop had a BIG fallout It was due to most of them hanging out with...the wrong crowed and of corse when my "Friend of a friend" went back to them she got it into her thick skull that all they do is b**** about others, so she has a go and gets thrown out and now she has no friends at all.

Im not making up with her and neither are any of my other friends, she wanted to leave us for the better crowed so she can be with the better crowed >_>

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Remember my friend who moved away? well she made a nice friend, a friend that b** about her threatend to puch her, slapped her for eating loudly, accused her of using her, thew away her christmess present, said she wanted me to die ((Long story on how I got caught up with her im telling you now O_O)) of corse it did'nt last long tongue

ontels · Apr 21, 2011 8:58 AM

I think evreone in the world has been picked on at some point in their life, it's best not to think about it. Plus when you leave school it tends to get much easier.

Mr. John · Apr 21, 2011 9:58 AM

ontels your right. And Clock I,m glad you got a new friend out of it.

Clock-la · Apr 21, 2011 12:41 PM

Mr. John wrote:

ontels your right. And Clock I,m glad you got a new friend out of it.

true true TBH her leving the groop made my friends closer as well to find somthing in comman whats better than a comman enemy? :3

Swaffy wrote:

I don't talk trash behind people's backs. Not only would it be unChristian-
like of me to do such a thing, but it is simply a wrong and disrespectuful
thing to do.

I tend to sperd gossip and talk about the horrid onse, but I make sure there not there, and the reson mearly they go around acting like there pritty when they are infact horrid ravaging animals.

anyway I trust my friends anyway, were a small tight nit groop now and can tell eachother anything what so ever and what ever we say to each other stays between us.

Rurikredwolf · Apr 21, 2011 2:44 PM

Some *bleep* started to spread rumors around me.

I ruined his life by placing fake cocaine in his locker. He didn't screw with me again until the next year. Then, I put a fake bloodied head in there. And I walked by when he opened it. And I called the teacher.

oooh how fun...

Clock-la · Apr 21, 2011 3:44 PM

Rurikredwolf wrote:

Some *bleep* started to spread rumors around me.
I ruined his life by placing fake cocaine in his locker. He didn't screw with me again until the next year. Then, I put a fake bloodied head in there. And I walked by when he opened it. And I called the teacher.
oooh how fun...

im glad i only cross you online O_O

oh there was one tail i forgot to say this was wierd...

My friend who moved away was just inocently walking about suddenly this truly AWFULL rumor popps up ((It was TRULY awfull i mean a realy realy crule SICK one.)) there was no truth in it and who started the rumor? that girl I was telling you about earlyer ((The one that abandond her from "Better" friends)) And what makes this more odd?

There was no fall out. there was no argument or crule things said she just said it for no reson what so ever.

Also I herd my name mentiond in food tevh once and got REALY paranoid like "OMG THERE ON ABOUT ME D:" then I realised they were just saying who did'nt have facebook tongue so i was like "well...I don't so no shame there then."

riverhippo · Apr 21, 2011 5:19 PM

Stormy wrote:

I got picked on to my face a lot at my tiny elementary school, but in high school there were so many people I don't think anyone really noticed me at all. They might have talked about me behind my back for all I knew, but I don't think so. I doubt I was interesting enough to them.
But... I've witnessed people talking about me on spyrochat. When it was new you used to be able to see a few messages that were sent before you joined, so one time I joined and they were talking about me. That was back when Aicebo didn't like/trust me; they were talking about who should be the next moderator or something.

That's funny AND sad.

Latias fan · Apr 21, 2011 7:16 PM

I heard alot of people talk about me in middle and high school i'm rather infamous for being a smart*** on the students.

riverhippo · Apr 21, 2011 10:50 PM

I too was made fun of.

A lot of times, though, I was so vulnerable, that 'behind my back' wasn't even necessary. Some of the talking was done right in front me.

Jusey1 · Apr 22, 2011 12:11 AM

"There are people who were made to ruin others' lives in some way..."
Quote By My Teacher.

In other words, there is bound to be someone who will bully you, try to take something away from you, etc. You just need to learn to ignore them and pass by them, because they will never stay forever in your life.

JazzJackrabbit · Apr 22, 2011 12:50 AM

I find it really annoying, especially when they think you can't hear them.

36IStillLikeSpyro36 · Apr 22, 2011 1:37 AM

am i the only person who had to resort to actually fighting back? hmm

prince-Dari · Apr 22, 2011 2:36 AM

Everyone gets talked about behind their backs, just don't listen to idiots. smile
Last time I heard people talking about me I just tried to make them feel awkward - "Hey guys, so what are you talking about?". XD

Life is good. smile

Stormy · Apr 22, 2011 3:59 AM

Woah, Dari actually posted. .__.

Lol, I'll have to keep that in mind if/when I ever catch someone talking about me. XD

Mr. John · Apr 22, 2011 4:58 AM

I find it so ironic though Clock but today the girl I like was eating lunch with some friends and other people that she is good friends with walked in as soon they saw the first group the girl I like was in this group they walked off. Maybe they had a falling out but I'm sure they'll solve the problelm and be buddy buddy again in no time. I mean everyone tells me thier pretty close so yeah guess it's good.

Back on topic sometimes they do talk right in front of me or beside me LOL. But in all honesty I should most likely just ignore it, Although LikeSpyro and Rurik I don't blame you at all for what you did. Those idoits deserved it.

Jusey1 · Apr 22, 2011 4:29 PM

36IStillLikeSpyro36 wrote:

am i the only person who had to resort to actually fighting back?

You do know that what the bully normally want, right?

Clock-la · Apr 23, 2011 12:45 PM

JazzJackrabbit wrote:

I find it really annoying, especially when they think you can't hear them.

thats the worst part off it >_>

I remember one time i saw thees girls *bleep*ing THINKING the girl could'nt hear them then what happened?

the girl looks at them and I heard a girl say
"oh she's looking at us!"
"So?..." and they carry on there b*** fest i was like O_O WTF!! harsh mutch?

36IStillLikeSpyro36 · Apr 23, 2011 4:55 PM

isn't it interesting how people like that always have these groups of friends, but the innocent and the victims seem to be the ones that are more often alone? or at least less popular.

Swaffy · Apr 23, 2011 5:25 PM

36IStillLikeSpyro36 wrote:

am i the only person who had to resort to actually fighting back?

Problem with that is: Fighting back only has negative results.

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