Friend Problem?

John Man 1234 · Oct 21, 2009 12:02 AM

Ok well there is this guy in the school that I'm going to and well he was being so nice to me a couple of weeks back. He Gave me a fist bump once and he even said thank you when I held the door. But all of a sudden he seems like he's changed he and his girlfriend just walk by me and stare not in any evil way but almost like nothing even happend.

I really like one of his friends and him being nice was really sweet he's Latino and so are his girlfriend the girl that I like and their other friends. The Latinos in my school are really sweet and I don't want to bother you guys with this but I wonder what's going on.

bmah · Oct 21, 2009 1:34 AM

Either you're overanalyzing the situation or maybe something's happened to the person that probably shouldn't concern you (probably a personal issue).

RedDragonX · Oct 21, 2009 1:45 PM

I think you are going overboard on it a bit. Ok the guy gave you the fistbump an said thank you and all but have you done much more then that to consider him a friend and such? People sway back and forth really easily when it comes to social interactions and most likely he just hasn't really seen you as a friend who he will notice every single day. My advice is just try to get a little more social interaction with him and his group there so that they can know you a little more.

Aicebo · Oct 21, 2009 3:11 PM

John Man, are you on the cast of a teen drama?

Kjakings · Oct 21, 2009 3:53 PM

Aicebo, are you on the international *bleep* team?

Emo · Oct 21, 2009 4:02 PM

Kjakings wrote:

Aicebo, are you on the international *bleep* team?

[glow=lightgreen:a5afdd00be]A little harsh, Kjakings? O.o

Anyways, Some people get like that John Man. Maybe he's going through emotional problems, Don't want to be bothered by anyone, want to hang with his girlfriend more. That type of stuff. Don't know what else to say though, but I'm sure he's still your friend.[/glow:a5afdd00be]

bmah · Oct 21, 2009 4:46 PM

Aicebo wrote:

John Man, are you on the cast of a teen drama?

Have to completely agree with this. It's not the first time he's asked for social/relationship advice. I don't see why he can't self-explore the situation himself for once. Thinking too hard about it.

John Man 1234 · Oct 21, 2009 6:09 PM

Thanks bmah and RedDragonX I'll do that and trust me I'll solve my own issues from now on. -) LOL yeah Aicebo I am but the director was so cheap that he was fired the first day on the job and now it's been cancelled.

Apoc · Oct 21, 2009 6:41 PM

Usually you don't consider the dude a "friend" when he just fist bumps you. When he starts treating you like one then consider him one as well.

John Man 1234 · Oct 21, 2009 7:37 PM

Trust me I know that more then ever now. Can someone please lock this there is no longer a point for it.

Apoc · Oct 21, 2009 9:10 PM

Good plan. Where is Reddragon?

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