Are you a hopeless romantic?

xXxSpyro__CynderxXx · Jul 08, 2008 5:29 AM

Lets just get one thing strait, I believe i am a hopeless romantic but it feels a bit to childish for someone like me. I just want to know if Im not the only one out there.

DarkMaster · Jul 08, 2008 5:45 AM

Do you mean that your hopeless at being Romantic???? because im hopeless at being romantic i dont know why but i just dont have it its very sad :'( :'( :'( :'( maybe thats why i dont have a Girlfriend :'( sad :'( sad

corky · Jul 08, 2008 5:45 AM

As I'm only 10 I haven't really experienced "romance". I've experienced crushes, but romance = no.

Fletch_Talon · Jul 08, 2008 5:55 AM

how is being romantic, childish?

what is childish are people who's minds rest solely on intercourse, it shows that they have no control over their instincts and they are thus weak minded, im not saying its bad to want to be close to someone like that, but when you look for partners with the sole purpose of finding a "bed buddy" youre a loser, a lot more so than a 40 yr old virgin in my opinion, though its a stretch

by hopeless romantic, i assume you mean the kind of feelings ive felt in the past, the incredible need to be with someone and to treat them with the utmost care and tenderness, the need to love someone because you have so much love to give

and of course the urge to watch sappy romantic movies like Love Actually, only to cry towards the end because it makes you realise that despite the crappy exterior, there is still beauty in the world... of course maybe that was just me >_>

xXxSpyro__CynderxXx · Jul 08, 2008 6:14 AM

Im a hopeless romantic meaning that love is one of my strong points. ive once helped 2 of my friends at school get together with the girls they liked and knowing that ive helped their relationships bloom just gave me a good feeling inside. they were really good freinds to me so i returned the favor.

I just love romance and i hope i would find it myself someday. I do have a lot of friends that are girls but i only like them as friends so i geuss i havent found the girl i like yet. I would just like to feel that warm feeling that couples share.

DarkMaster · Jul 08, 2008 6:18 AM

Me Two sad sad sad sad

xXxSpyro__CynderxXx · Jul 08, 2008 6:20 AM

Cool DarkMaster im sure youll find someone to share your heart with. just one thing though TURN THAT FROWN UPSIDE!!! Thats an order.

Fletch_Talon · Jul 08, 2008 7:00 AM

yeah bit of advice, i felt all mopey that i couldnt find anyone who liked me/ was right for me, the moment i stopped worrying about that and accepted that "it would happen when it happens" i must have become more confident or something, cuz i befriended and then won over the girl of my dreams not long after

in other words, stop worrying about it, a watched pot never boils, the more time you stress about it the longer it seems and the harder it will be to find someone to be with

DarkMaster · Jul 08, 2008 7:09 AM

but i have been putting it aside for about 3 years now awww but nothing just admit it every one hates me

Fletch_Talon · Jul 08, 2008 7:28 AM

DarkMaster wrote:

but i have been putting it aside for about 3 years now awww but nothing just admit it every one hates me

if youre profile is to be believed you are 11, whilst not unheard of (especially in this day and age) you arent at an appropriate age to be in a relationship, let alone anything seriously involving romance

i managed to survive to 17 turning 18 before having any relationship let alone a romantic one, a relationship formed before you even reach highschool (thats 13 here in australia) is just silliness in my opinion, you most likely havnt hit puberty, or if you have then its nowhere near over, and due to this your mind is going to be extremely muddled and prone to hormonal imbalances and the like, its really just a bad time to start something

not to mention in a relationship, for those hitting puberty certain urges are likely to rise to the surface, urges which, despite the body being ready for, the mind is not

also its legally questionable

ratchet · Jul 08, 2008 8:10 AM

Well, kindof me, i've never really had a crush and NEVER had a girlfriend

DarkMaster · Jul 08, 2008 8:23 AM

what i dont get it i mean i've had heaps of girlfriends but that was in the past big_smile

Phoenix_Flyer · Jul 08, 2008 8:35 AM

I haven't been out with anyone yet. I have had crushes but its gone no further. Thats not to say I haven't been asked out, I just turned them down. When they actually asked, I was 12. I thought, NO WAY! Most people won't know what love is until they are at least 16. When you're younger people only tend to go out with someone for bragging rights or because they were infatuated. Thats not love, and romance isn't taking someone to the cinema and holding hands either.

Kamineko · Jul 08, 2008 9:05 AM

DarkMaster wrote:

Do you mean that your hopeless at being Romantic???? because im hopeless at being romantic i dont know why but i just dont have it its very sad :'( :'( :'( :'( maybe thats why i dont have a Girlfriend :'( :'(

Or the fact that you're 11.

you don't get a girlfriend because you're romantic, you become romantic because you have a girlfriend.

Phoenix_Flyer · Jul 08, 2008 10:16 AM

Well said Atresac.

reddragon12 · Jul 08, 2008 1:29 PM

i can be edgy
(antr is realy romantic though :wub: )

A Guy · Jul 08, 2008 1:31 PM

Not me. I currently have better things to do with my money than to waste it on a girl.

A Guy · Jul 08, 2008 1:41 PM

Sorry for double posting, but I found this somewhere and it made me laugh.

20 reasons video games are better than girls.

1. They come with instructions.

2. They let you cheat

3. You can borrow them from your friends

4. When you go to the mall, you can actually pick one up

5. They look great as soon as you wake up in the morning

6. 2 words...Pause Button

7. $60 is all you'll have to spend

8. You can always get the hottest one

9. No shower, no problem

10. It's ok to spend the evening alone with them and a 2-litre bottle of orange soda

11. You can go on "dates" in your underwear

12. Your mom won't get mad if you're in your room with the door closed

13. You get that pizza all to yourself

14. All you have to do to make the relationship work is find a save point

15. You can ignore them for a week without consequences

16. Your friends can watch and join in

17. No matter how many times you mess up you can try again

18. No matter how many problems you're having with them your friends will listen

19. You can actually get the ones in magazines

20. If you get bored you can trade them in for a new one

So do the right thing-stick to video games wink

EDIT:For all of you out there ready to accuse me of being sexist, this is a joke.

Phoenix_Flyer · Jul 08, 2008 1:56 PM

Ehehehehe...... Thats mint......

Ayumi_the_Dark_Wolf · Jul 08, 2008 2:30 PM

LOL, owned.

i have NO ONE to love. NO ONE realizes how hard my life is with autism.

Cyndersparx · Jul 08, 2008 2:34 PM

Why do some boys think that women are just 'objects'?
Am I a hopeless romantic? : HELL NO!!!!!!!!
Why should I be concerned about getting a boyfriend? Im only twelve!!!
Although it seems as if someone at school did like me before...
But I still dont care!!!

reddragon12 · Jul 08, 2008 2:46 PM

Ayumi_the_Dark_Wolf wrote:

LOL, owned.
i have NO ONE to love. NO ONE realizes how hard my life is with autism.

yahoo loves you she just don't like to admit it to you

Spyrorocks · Jul 08, 2008 5:52 PM

Cyndersparx wrote:

Why do some boys think that women are just 'objects'?
Am I a hopeless romantic? : *Bleep* NO!!!!!!!!
Why should I be concerned about getting a boyfriend? Im only twelve!!!
Although it seems as if someone at school did like me before...
But I still dont care!!!

Amen. I have been waiting for someone like you to say that.

reddragon12 · Jul 08, 2008 6:33 PM

thankyou for saying that

Stormy · Jul 08, 2008 6:45 PM

Cyndersparx wrote:

Why do some boys think that women are just 'objects'?

[sub]Thank you. That attitude (girls as objects) disgusts me to no end. Some people have no respect for the opposite gender.[/sub]

Am I a hopeless romantic? : *Bleep* NO!!!!!!!!
Why should I be concerned about getting a boyfriend? Im only twelve!!!
Although it seems as if someone at school did like me before...
But I still dont care!!!

[sub]One of the most sensible things I've heard all day. big_smile

It's just silly the way some people's minds seem to work; they think they have to go out and "get a boyfriend". If I find someone I like, I'll go out with him, but I'm not going to go look. =/[/sub]

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