The Bad Boys vs. The Nice Guys?

Mr. John · Apr 22, 2011 5:25 AM

Well Spyrofourm. In all truthfulness what do you think?

When it comes to the dating game I've been hearing a lot it's always the bad boys the jerks, A holes who give a dam about a wome stay true to themselves, and pretty much are mucho and cocky. The Bad Boys against the Nice Guys.

The guys who hold doors for people, are sweet to women, and just generally treat everyone well. In all your options who do you pefer?

riverhippo · Apr 22, 2011 9:29 AM

In my experience, nice guys finish last.

Girls will say stuff like, "No they don't, nice guys are great!"

Everyone likes a nice guy, but the 'bad' guys seem to do a better job of being themselves and people seem to like that more.

It's not as simple as saying, guys that hold doors open for girls get all the dates. The reality is that some of the biggest jerks get the most action.

I'm not jealous though.

Clock-la · Apr 22, 2011 10:08 AM

depends ohn the person...

TBH i'd rather be with a guy who I can stand and be around...

SapphireSheep · Apr 22, 2011 10:22 AM

eh, as for somebody who I would want to date, definitely a nice guy. I really love when they are sensitive and sweet C: but when it comes down to eye candy or something fictional I love a bad boy. But that's just me tongue

Clock-la · Apr 22, 2011 10:27 AM

SapphireSheep wrote:

eh, as for somebody who I would want to date, definitely a nice guy. I really love when they are sensitive and sweet C: but when it comes down to eye candy or something fictional I love a bad boy. But that's just me

dreamings good :3

but in reality its best to just stay away XD

Mr. John · Apr 22, 2011 10:39 AM

If only there was someone out there who was a mixture of both.

SapphireSheep · Apr 22, 2011 10:40 AM

Clock-la wrote:

SapphireSheep wrote:
eh, as for somebody who I would want to date, definitely a nice guy. I really love when they are sensitive and sweet C: but when it comes down to eye candy or something fictional I love a bad boy. But that's just me
dreamings good :3
but in reality its best to just stay away XD

EXACTLY XD because I can swoon over many bad boy characters but in real life I probably couldn't be around one. I'm much too gentle soooo being with a bad boy would be a terrible idea for me XD but it also depends if it's just his attitude or if he actually gets into trouble

Rurikredwolf · Apr 22, 2011 4:11 PM

Quote from a book

"Nice guys may finish last, but they get laid a lot more along the way."

Being a 'bad dude' only gets you so far and before yoou know it, everyone hates you.

Jusey1 · Apr 22, 2011 4:34 PM

Depends on their personality.

I'm, for one, is a good guy. I'm someone who look for the good things in people, if possible and I don't know them as a 'bad guy'. I also will date someone for their personality, not their looks or gender, hence that's why I'm Bi.

Bad guys normally do get the ladies 1st but about 5 or so years later, you get a divorce. The good guys normally keep the marriage to their death because they are the ones that are most loyal to their wife and family, unlike the bad guys who probably spend time at the bar a lot.

Mr. John · Apr 22, 2011 7:24 PM

Yeah I mean they do seem like their on top of the world. But eventually it comes crashing down on them.

Swaffy · Apr 22, 2011 7:31 PM

I'll tell you one thing:

I don't want to date neither a "bad guy" or a "good guy." Period!

Aceedwin · Apr 22, 2011 9:03 PM

It is my fundamental belief that a decent relationship requires respect, and neither the purely bad guy or the purely nice guy will be able to support that. The bad guy is incapable of giving respect, and the nice guy is incable of taking it. After all, if all you ever do is lay yourself out as a girl's doormat, it'll be pretty hard for her to respect you.

Also, Swaffles, is that just because you're straight? Perhaps the lady doth protest too much, as it were.

riverhippo · Apr 23, 2011 2:16 AM

Swaffy wrote:

I'll tell you one thing:
I don't want to date neither a "bad guy" or a "good guy." Period!

ontels · Apr 25, 2011 5:13 PM

Girls are usually attracted to the person who can protect her and their future children and because "bad boys" advertise there fighting capabilities more the girls are attracted to them.

Sucks when the divorces, arguments and beatings happen though.

Jusey1 · Apr 25, 2011 7:28 PM

Swaffy wrote:

I'll tell you one thing:
I don't want to date neither a "bad guy" or a "good guy." Period!

"There is no neutral when it comes to Good or Bad!"

Quote I found, lol. So basicly your saying you don't want to date anyone period.

Mr. John · Apr 25, 2011 9:58 PM

LOL Swaffy nice one. But yeah ontels is right. I mean if your a nice guy oh yeah, your nice to everyone. People might call you a gentlemen but the ladies they may just see you as a doormat. Not as someone who would ravage her on the table at home.

If your the bad boy, you walk the walk and talk the talk. You can protect her and stuff but you treat her as if she's replaceble and eventully. You may break up fight, and divorce maybe even beatings shivers.

Still if only a person can mix these personalities into one.

JazzJackrabbit · Apr 25, 2011 10:12 PM

Jusey1 wrote:

Swaffy wrote:
I'll tell you one thing:
I don't want to date neither a "bad guy" or a "good guy." Period!
"There is no neutral when it comes to Good or Bad!"
Quote I found, lol. So basicly your saying you don't want to date anyone period.

He's saying he's straight.

Mr. John · Apr 25, 2011 10:27 PM

Exactly as Jazz says.

Jusey1 · Apr 26, 2011 7:19 PM

Mr. John wrote:

LOL Swaffy nice one. But yeah ontels is right. I mean if your a nice guy oh yeah, your nice to everyone. People might call you a gentlemen but the ladies they may just see you as a doormat. Not as someone who would ravage her on the table at home.
If your the bad boy, you walk the walk and talk the talk. You can protect her and stuff but you treat her as if she's replaceble and eventully. You may break up fight, and divorce maybe even beatings shivers.
Still if only a person can mix these personalities into one.

Actually, what happens is that Girls goes after the 'Bad Guys' in High School, they break-up later in life and go after the 'Good Guys'

Also, Girls, normally, don't look at the 'Good Guys' like a doormat + Protective is a 'Neutral Trait' so Good guys can be very protective, I mean look at myself lol. I'm a good guy but I swear if you land a hand on my woman, or dare to try, you wont be seeing sunshine in years neutral .

Also Jazz, Idk Gender online lol.

ontels · Apr 26, 2011 8:52 PM

Some girls are allways addicted to the bad.

The little guy next to evreones avatars shows gender. Pink for girls and blue for boys.

riverhippo · Apr 27, 2011 1:57 AM

ontels wrote:

Some girls are allways addicted to the bad.
The little guy next to evreones avatars shows gender. Pink for girls and blue for boys.

False. There are no girls on the internet.

SapphireSheep · Apr 27, 2011 3:02 AM

ontels wrote:

The little guy next to evreones avatars shows gender. Pink for girls and blue for boys.

oh god I never noticed that, jeez I'm dumb XD

ontels · Apr 27, 2011 9:27 AM

riverhippo wrote:

ontels wrote:
Some girls are allways addicted to the bad.
The little guy next to evreones avatars shows gender. Pink for girls and blue for boys.
False. There are no girls on the internet.

It shows what you have set your gender to not what you actually are.

Latias fan · Apr 27, 2011 6:51 PM

riverhippo wrote:

ontels wrote:
Some girls are allways addicted to the bad.
The little guy next to evreones avatars shows gender. Pink for girls and blue for boys.
False. There are no girls on the internet.

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ontels · Apr 27, 2011 7:26 PM

You really overuse that.

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