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Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (John Man 1234) — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 14:54:34 +0000

Thanks guys. And also I'm sure Stormy or someone will come along and lock it.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (RedDragonX) — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 02:45:10 +0000

Yes. Unless someone comes along to lock it.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (Swaffy) — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 02:11:20 +0000

Alright. Hey, no problem helping. Glad they're together!

Now that it's a done topic, can we let this sink to the bottom to allow room
for more topics?

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (Mysterious Cynder) — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:44:35 +0000

didn't i get something right?

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (John Man 1234) — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 01:56:15 +0000

Things are working out great. They are going out this weekend like I said and they are now boyfriend and girlfriend and look very happy thanks for all the help guys. As usual have a nce day!

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (Swaffy) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 23:22:25 +0000

I give my word on RedDragon. He knows a lot about dating, as I do too.
Anytime, we'll help you out. Anybody, in fact. Even though this is Internet,
there are always people to help.

It is true. Most high-school dates do not last until marriage. By truth, I
parted from my 'girlfriend' today during lunch. But it was okay with the
both of us. We... [moving to the "talk about relationships" thread, I'm
getting off-topic.]

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (RedDragonX) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 23:10:22 +0000

You're more then welcome. Need anything else just give a shout.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (John Man 1234) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 22:54:09 +0000

Your right thanks for all the help.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (RedDragonX) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 22:49:52 +0000

Yes everything is unpredictable in life.....and one thing that I have extensive experience with is watching a good opportunity pass by....and then be questioning yourself "what if" for a very very long time. Don't let him end up in the same situation....for the worse that she can do is say no....and even if it is no now it certainly doesn't mean that it's going to be no later.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (John Man 1234) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 11:38:05 +0000

Well they are both 16. And they do look like they have a lot of chemistry since they both are shy. He dosen't want to rush anything eather and the really seem to bring out the best in one another. Your right Red nothing does last forever sometimes. But at the exact same time you never know. Thanks Red I'll tell my friend.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (RedDragonX) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 02:18:07 +0000

Delicate situation indeed....despite the fact advice has already been given I always love to put my two cents in anyways....

Depending on the age of friends at hand....I don't know if a ring could really signify that she is with someone else.....but at the same time you can't rule it out. I have seen that many times before where someone will give a girl nice items even if it is just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

If they still have that chemistry...as made obvious by this constant staring....then your friend has to find out the truth of the matter....if he likes her that much anyways. Simple crushes are very common...but nothing lasts forever in high school dating relationships for the most part.....but unless he wants to live in relative fear of her attaining a boyfriend or just under the torture of constantly staring at her...he has to find out the truth.

Just approach her as a friend and talk to her as a friend. I wouldn't rush things to find out if she has a boyfriend....and if they start talking a lot it should come out naturally anyways...but I wouldn't just go up to her and be like..."So did a boyfriend give you that ring?....and if not will you go out with me sometime?".....girls never liked to be rushed into things...and even if they do it at first....they will feel uncomfortable perhaps later on.

All this stuff is unpredictable...the most we can do is make assumptions based upon real life situations....but friendship is always the key....and before he asks her out in anyway....they have to have natural friendship chemistry....and if that takes effect quickly...and she doesn't have a boyfriend...then the time is indeed right....but if she does have a boyfriend.....then it's another story.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (John Man 1234) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 02:15:24 +0000

Thanks it worked out. She does like him as well their going out this weekend. Once again thanks.

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (Mysterious Cynder) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 00:42:19 +0000

anytime, anytime.... if it doesn't work out or the shyness comes back up again.... i'll have to give you more advice...

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (John Man 1234) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 00:40:49 +0000

Ok awasome thanks for the advice. I''ll do that thanks!

Re: Help with a Girl Problem!

dummy@example.com (Mysterious Cynder) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 00:38:25 +0000

all three! on the date though.... (the third one is do you like me) and so what if she or your friend is shy! beat that shyness up like a little potato! (lol awkward)