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Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Black dragon) — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 03:04:12 +0000

She probably dumped you because you had some sort of attitude or something.

Also, don't try to get a girlfriend at that age, you'll look like a moron, and it won't end well. Try waiting until your a bit older and more mature.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (JazzJackrabbit) — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 02:37:44 +0000

I think the secret is to not try. A good relationship might come by surprise, but pre-teens shouldn't have boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. I blame Disney and Nickelodeon for this mess.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Mr. John) — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 02:36:48 +0000

Swaffy, Aicebo, and Synthony are all right. It takes time when the day is right the person who is meant for you will be there.

But until than enjoy having the people you have in your life now.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Aicebo) — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 02:18:22 +0000

I agree completely with swaffy; I feel like people really don't think about it much when it comes to relationships

I'm not going to have a relationship with anyone for at least a few more years, and I'm fine with that, because you can't rush time of whenever you're going to find someone that you'll truly care for

I do however love a lot of people around me like my family and friends, I appreciate them all so much and I'm happy to have them in my life

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Synthony) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 22:44:10 +0000

If you passed over that big wall of blue text Swaffy posted above, please go back and read it. There's no better way to say what needs to be said.
Believe me, you don't even understand what love really is yet. I'm almost 19, and I still don't know what it is. As Swaffy said, dating isn't about love -- it's about learning. Nobody ever has a perfect relationship the first time around. Take experience from this and move on.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Rurikredwolf) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 20:21:24 +0000

18 and been in and out. To me, it just gets in the way atm.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (RedDragonX) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 20:20:24 +0000

Clock-la wrote:

Neotyguy40 wrote:
*bleep*, you're 12 and you already had a girlfriend?
Would it make you feel better if I said I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend?
i'v seen 10 year old with gf or BF
scioty changes.

And people wonder why society is in a constant state of decay. I'm 22 years old and have yet to master relationships. It's not something that is instantly attained and in the wonderful world of today it's not about staying with someone it's about pumping out a few kids as quick as you can to get some Government support.

Either way you're far too young to be worrying about something like this. You'll get more chances in the future to find someone you truly want to be with. Heck you're 12 years old, play video games and shoot frogs, don't be worry about relationships.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Clock-la) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 17:21:04 +0000

Clock-la wrote:

Neotyguy40 wrote:
*bleep*, you're 12 and you already had a girlfriend?
Would it make you feel better if I said I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend?
i'v seen 10 year old with gf or BF.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Clock-la) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 17:05:56 +0000

Neotyguy40 wrote:

*bleep*, you're 12 and you already had a girlfriend?
Would it make you feel better if I said I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend?

i'v seen 10 year old with gf or BF

scioty changes.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (ontels) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 15:23:37 +0000

Have you even been trying for the last 4 years Neotyguy?

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Neotyguy40) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 15:13:22 +0000

*bleep*, you're 12 and you already had a girlfriend?

Would it make you feel better if I said I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend?

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Aceedwin) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 15:05:23 +0000

Perhaps the rampant swearing and rage was why she dumped you? Would be slightly ironic.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Mr. John) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 13:54:03 +0000

Young person you deserve better. Good luck you"ll find the right person for you one day. You still have plenty of time.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Latias fan) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 13:39:41 +0000

Or you can just move on with life love is fleeting but unnesessary and in the end it gets old.Also you can swaer all you want as long as you censor it your fine.

Re: Why...

dummy@example.com (Swaffy) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 13:02:26 +0000

You have a long way to go until you reach the age where people are
looking for a true mate. It begins about Senior year of High School when
people actually look for someone who they could, realistically, spend the
rest of their life with. Most people end up divorcing, sadly. But this world is
a crude, hateful, and lost world.

To be straight-to-your-face honest, people that are around your age
should expect to have their relationship split [break up].

The point in dating someone is about looking to find the right person that
fits the your expectations just right. Dating is not for kissing, having
sex, or anything of that sort. It is finding who [and who not] to love and be
loved by; to take care of and be taken care of. A lot of people also get the
meaning of love wrong:

The meaning of love is not having a sexual relationship with someone.
Love is to Protect and to Provide for a person. If you do not try to protect
and to provide for that person, you do not love them. Love is not a
feeling. You can also love somebody without being in a relationship
with them. You can love your friends and neighbors by showing them
provision and care.

1 Corinthians 13:4
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."
If you have found real love, this statement would be True.
Providing for a person is an act of kindness and selflessness. Same as
protecting a person from the harms of this world.

There's my little lesson for today. Take it or leave it, it's your choice.